Listen. Truly listen. We were created for fellowship and most people I meet want to share. People feel valued when we actively listen to their stories.
Send a card or note telling them how special and important they are to you - but not vaguely. Point out the specifics of why. Ask their advice or opinion when you're doing something important. Listen to them when they're trying to talk to you - no phone, no TV, none of that. Take time away from all the other stuff that keeps you busy specifically just to spend time with them. Don't put everything else ahead of them time and time again. When you're having a conversation, listen and don't shut them down if you don't agree. Ask why they believe that view or why they would do it that way and not the way you would.
Yes to this! It’s so hard to listen when we want to talk! The discipline of listening is so important. Thank you for these words!
Listen. Truly listen. We were created for fellowship and most people I meet want to share. People feel valued when we actively listen to their stories.
Send a card or note telling them how special and important they are to you - but not vaguely. Point out the specifics of why. Ask their advice or opinion when you're doing something important. Listen to them when they're trying to talk to you - no phone, no TV, none of that. Take time away from all the other stuff that keeps you busy specifically just to spend time with them. Don't put everything else ahead of them time and time again. When you're having a conversation, listen and don't shut them down if you don't agree. Ask why they believe that view or why they would do it that way and not the way you would.
Thank you for this Emily. Totally agree that 100% focus let’s another person know they are important! I appreciate your input!
You're welcome! 😊
Sending/Mailing a hand written note and using their first name is so meaningful.
Totally agree! Thanks Patty! Have a good day!